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代溝英語(yǔ)作文(一):
如何讓彌合代溝?
How to Bridge the Generation Gap?
大部分的家庭免不了存在代溝,代溝給一個(gè)家庭帶來(lái)很多沖突。我認(rèn)為,為了控制代溝的不良影響,每個(gè)家庭都應(yīng)當(dāng)嘗試以下方法:
The generation gap is unavoidable in almost every family, which brings about a number of conflicts in a family。 In my opinion, to limit the bad effects of the generation gap, each family should use the following three methods:
首先,在家庭聚會(huì)的時(shí)候,家庭成員公開討論自我的童年時(shí)期的歡樂(lè)或悲傷是很重要的。這一活動(dòng)不僅僅營(yíng)造一種緊密的關(guān)系并且能夠幫忙建立家庭成員之間的相互理解。比如說(shuō),一旦孩子們意識(shí)到他們的爺爺奶奶甚至是爸爸媽媽在艱苦的童年時(shí)期沒(méi)有很好的成長(zhǎng),他們就會(huì)停止抱怨上一代人的陳舊思想。同時(shí),一旦老一輩人意識(shí)到年輕人是在一種新的現(xiàn)代方式下成長(zhǎng),他們就很容易理解年輕人的習(xí)慣和愛(ài)好。
First of all, it is important that family members discuss openly about their pleasures or sadness in childhood in family gatherings。 This activity does not only create a close relationship but also help build up understanding among all members。 For instance, once children are aware that their grandparents and even their parents did not have a good upbringing during their hard childhood, they will stop plaining about the previous generations’ obsoleteness。 In the meantime, once old people realize young people are nurtured in a new modern way, it is easy for them to be tolerant of young people’s new habits or hobbies。
其次,每一代人都不應(yīng)當(dāng)高估自我。為此,他們不應(yīng)當(dāng)認(rèn)為他們是家里唯一對(duì)的人,因?yàn)槊總(gè)人都有自我的極限。青少年應(yīng)當(dāng)意識(shí)到,他們的父母必須與困苦斗爭(zhēng)給他們供給經(jīng)濟(jì)上的支持,他們就會(huì)停止反抗父母的嚴(yán)厲。父母也應(yīng)當(dāng)意識(shí)到,孩子們的新風(fēng)格不會(huì)影響學(xué)習(xí),從而停止把自我不適宜的吧標(biāo)準(zhǔn)強(qiáng)加在孩子身上。
Secondly, people of each generation should not develop a very high feeling about themselves。 In order to do that, they should not think that they are the only right people in their family because each person has his or her own limitations。 Teenagers would realize that their parents have to struggle with pain to support them financially, and they would stop rebelling their strictness。 Parents would realize that their children’s new style does no harm to their studies and stop imposing their own unsuitable standards on their children。
最終,如果所有的成員合作起來(lái)去建立一個(gè)關(guān)系緊密的家庭關(guān)系以及能夠坦誠(chéng)和互相容忍融洽的氛圍,代溝及其不良影響就能夠得到限制。我堅(jiān)信,經(jīng)過(guò)這樣做,每個(gè)家庭都能享有一個(gè)代溝干擾最小的舒適氛圍。
Finally, the generation gap and its bad effects can be limited if all members cooperate to build up a close-knit family relationship and a harmonious atmosphere in which they are open and tolerant of each other。 I strongly believe that each family, by doing that, can enjoy a cozy atmosphere with minimum interference by the generation gap。
代溝英語(yǔ)作文(二):
Nowadays,the problem of generation gap bees more and more serious。 Based on the survey by our school, the poor relationship between parents and their children is very mon。 Are these problems caused by the busy parents? Or,do the harsh family rules affect their relationship?
Firstly, in most of the families in the US, both of the parents have to go out for work in order to earn more money to proveide better environment for their lovely children。 Unfortunately, this causes the rare munication between them and their children, since these parents always take rest during leisure time。 These parents and children cannot know deeply about each other, then friction is easy to appear。 Therefore, a wide generation gap es into being。
Secondly, parents who ask their children to be absolute obedient to them is also one of the grave causes of generation gap between them。 Therefore, these children are not willing to municate with their parents and most of these parents are not active to talk with their children。 Thus, misunderstanding between them often occurs。
To solve these problems, the busy parents should sacrifice their spare time to municate with their children actively so as to improve their relationship。 At the same time, they can also observe their children's behavior in order to understand their children's personality and reduce the quarrel betweeen them。
Besides that, the parents should try to give up their absolute power in family to give a better image to their children since it can make their children feel free to chat with their parents。 Then it is easy for the parents to approach their lovely children。 Therefore, a close and harmonious relationship between parents and children appears。
In conclusion, to have a close relationship between parents and children, the parents should devote their leisure time to talking with their children and observing their childern's personality and give their children the approaching images。 If so, this terrible phenomenon, generation gap, cannot occur any more。
如今,代溝的問(wèn)題越來(lái)越嚴(yán)重。中氣我們的學(xué)校的調(diào)查,父母與子女之間的關(guān)系不好很常見。這些問(wèn)題是由忙碌的父母造成的?或者是嚴(yán)厲的家規(guī)影響他們的關(guān)系嗎?
首先,在美國(guó)大多數(shù)的家庭中,父母雙方都外出工作以賺取更多的錢來(lái)為他們可愛(ài)的孩子供給更好的環(huán)境。不幸的是,這導(dǎo)致他們和孩子之間很少有溝通,因?yàn)檫@些父母總是在閑暇時(shí)光休息。這些家長(zhǎng)和孩子不能彼此深入了解,然后容易出現(xiàn)摩擦。所以,一個(gè)寬大的代溝就產(chǎn)生了。
其次,家長(zhǎng)要孩子要絕對(duì)服從于他們也是他們之間產(chǎn)生代溝嚴(yán)重的原因。所以,這些孩子都不愿意與父母以及大多數(shù)的父母都不主動(dòng)跟孩子溝通。所以,他們之間會(huì)經(jīng)常發(fā)生誤會(huì)。
為了解決這個(gè)問(wèn)題,忙碌的父母應(yīng)當(dāng)放下自我的業(yè)余時(shí)光和他們的孩子進(jìn)取溝通以改善與他們的關(guān)系。同時(shí),也能夠?yàn)橛^察孩子的行為,要了解孩子的個(gè)性和減少與他們之間的爭(zhēng)吵。
除此之外,父母應(yīng)盡量放下在家中的絕對(duì)權(quán)利,給的孩子樹立一個(gè)更好的形象,因?yàn)樗軌蚴购⒆痈械阶杂膳c父母聊天。然后父母能夠很容易地接近他們的可愛(ài)的孩子們。所以,親密融洽的關(guān)系在家長(zhǎng)和孩子之間出現(xiàn)。
總之,父母和孩子之間要有親密的關(guān)系,家長(zhǎng)應(yīng)當(dāng)把閑暇時(shí)光給他們的孩子,觀察孩子的個(gè)性以及給孩子平易近人的形象。如果這樣的話,這個(gè)可怕的現(xiàn)象,代溝,就不會(huì)再發(fā)生了。
代溝英語(yǔ)作文(三):
Generation Gap
Though many aspects of our social life have been improved, the generation gap between the youths and the olders remain and even grows wider。
In my opinion, because of the influence of individualism from western civilization, the youths do not blindly follow what the elders say, that causes the gap。 The young arecreative and revolutionary, always go along with the trend and like changing。 While the old, accustomed to everything of the past, are hostile to change。 Also with more and more different beliefs and philosophical ideas, it is natural the young hold different opinions from the old。
I think in order to narrow the gap, both parts should try to understand and respect each other, instead of trying to change others as they wish。 Diversity doesn't mean conflict so long as they hold the right attitude towards the problems。
代溝英語(yǔ)作文(四):
I remember that when I was in my teens, I used to refuse to obey many of the "do's" and "don'ts" my parents dictated to me。 For example, when I kept on playing jazz records on the stereo, my father would condemn such music as sheer noise and replaced them with disks of classical music that I always considered extremely dull。 When I insisted that I sleep with my pet dog, they immediately said, "No way," because they thought I would be bitten by fleas。 These were just a few examples of the things I thought my parents were unreasonable about。
Today, however, I am a father of a boy aged 15, and I find that I too, am pressuring my son with a lot of rules and regulations hard for him to "swallow"。 It's not unmon to hear my yelling at him, "What do you mean by fooling around all night without reviewing your lessons?" or "How e you did it? You are still wet behind the ears。" The other day, I noticed that my son wore giant pants that three teen-agers could occupy。 No one would wear them on the grounds that they were indecent and undignified。 I at once manded him to take them off。 Usually, he is fairly obedient, but this time he put his foot down。 "What's wrong with giant pants? All my classmates wear them, and I don't think you have the authority to order me to remove them, even though you are my father!" said he。 When I was a boy, if I had spoken with such rudeness to my elders, I would have been given a good beating。 But I suddenly realized that we are now living in a more liberal society, and that my son's insistence on wearing g
iant pants was merely an instance of the generation gap that existed between us。 Therefore, I gave in and now he still wears giant pants。
代溝英語(yǔ)作文(五):
Nowadays, the problems of generation gap bee more and more serious。 The poor relationship between parents and their children is very mon。 Are these problems caused by the busy parents? Or, do the harsh family rules affect the relationship of parents and children?
Firstly, in most of the families in China both of the parents have to go out for work in order to earn more money to provide better environment for their lovely children。 Unfortunately, this causes the rare munication between them and theft children, since these parents always take rest during leisure time。 These parents and children cannot know deeply about each other and friction will appear。 Secondly, parents who ask their children to be absolutely obedient is also one of the grave causes of the generation gap between them! They do not try to municate with their children as their equals。 Thus, misinterpretation of them may easily occur。
To solve these problems, the busy parents should sacrifice their spare time to municate with their children actively and friendly to improve their relation。 At the same time, they can also observe their children's behavior at the same time in order to understand heir children's personality as it can reduce the quarrel between them。 Besides that, the parents should try to give up their absolute power in family so as lo make their children feel free to chat with them。
代溝英語(yǔ)作文(六):
Today's teenager is a young adult; he is more mature and responsible than the teenagers of previous generations。 Nevertheless, he is beset with customary trials natural to his age group-disconcerting periods of self-doubt and other periods of self-sufficiency。 His character and personality are in the process of being molded。 It is a stage when he is not quite sure he wants to be on his own, yet he resents too much parental pressure。 This attitude and feeling is called the generation gap or the munication gap。 However, this attitude and feeling will change as he learns how to live with the world, especially with his parents, brothers, sisters, and teachers。
代溝英語(yǔ)作文(七):
Generation gap Generation gap refers to the distance and contradiction(矛盾) between the old and the youth。 It’s a mon(常見的) phenomenon(現(xiàn)象) that exits everywhere in the world and influences both the old and the youth。 Generally speaking, generation gap results in different understanding and appreciation of the great and constant changes of the world, different reaction to new things, and different attitudes to tradition(傳統(tǒng)) principles(原則) and beliefs。 Therefore, we may say where there are the old and the youth; there is the generation gap。 Generation gap is natural, but very influential(有影響的)。 If we cannot deal withit appropriately(適當(dāng)?shù)?, the gap will be greater and greater and consequently(結(jié)果) affect the work and the relation between the old and the young。
代溝英語(yǔ)作文(八):
Nowadays,“generation gap”has gradually bee a mon phenomenon all over the world。 Experiencing different time, as a result, causes the difference between parents and children in tastes, the method they deal with problems and values。
This case may more easily happen in teenagers。 The reason lies in they are young, they have strong passion for freedom, and they like showing themselves off。 Then it is no wonder that arguments often arise between their parents and them, which always make the parents worried。 They can hardly figure out what their children are thinking about。 Because they wear strange clothes, listen noisy music and even walk around town with tattoos and pierces all over their bodies。 Nevertheless, in teenager’ eyes, their parents are out of date and conservative。 They may talk with their friends more often than their parents。 In a word, ‘generation gap’ is an interminable problem。
Seriously, how to bridge the generation gap? In my opinion, first, show respect。 The mutual respect can play an important role in avoiding conflicts。 Second, listen more than talk。 It’s no doubt that it is a very efficient way to keep the conversation longer。 At last, keep humors, this can make the talk friendly。
Despite the fact that parents may be worried about the generation gap between their children and themselves。 But as we all know, with time going by, children gradually grow old and ripe。 And then they will e to understand their parents。
如今,“代溝”已逐漸成為一種普遍現(xiàn)象世界各地。經(jīng)歷不一樣的時(shí)光,所以,導(dǎo)致父母和孩子之間的區(qū)別在品味,他們處理問(wèn)題的方法和價(jià)值觀。
這種情景下可能更容易發(fā)生在青少年。原因在于他們年輕,他們有強(qiáng)烈的熱愛(ài)自由,然后他們喜歡顯示自我。難怪爭(zhēng)論他們的父母和他們之間經(jīng)常出現(xiàn),這總是讓父母擔(dān)心。他們很難找到他們的孩子在想些什么。因?yàn)樗麄兇┢婀值囊路犞须s的音樂(lè),甚至走在城里的紋身和刺入自我的身體。然而,少年的眼睛,他們的父母是過(guò)時(shí)的和保守的。他們可能比他們的父母更經(jīng)常與他們的朋友。總之,“代溝”是一個(gè)冗長(zhǎng)的問(wèn)題。
嚴(yán)重的是,如何縮小代溝呢?在我看來(lái),首先,尊重。相互尊重能夠發(fā)揮重要作用在避免沖突。第二,聽多說(shuō)話。毫無(wú)疑問(wèn),這是一個(gè)十分有效的方法來(lái)堅(jiān)持談話了。最終,堅(jiān)持幽默,這能夠使友好交談。
盡管父母可能會(huì)擔(dān)心他們的孩子之間的代溝和他們自我。但我們都明白,隨著時(shí)光的經(jīng)過(guò),孩子逐漸變老和成熟。然后他們會(huì)開始理解父母。
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